Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Juggling...


{I love his heart shaped nose.}

You know that I don't think I'm a big deal, right?! I hope you know that. I really do not think that I'm a big deal.
{Have you seen those tshirts that say "I'm a really big deal on the internet"? Cracks me up!}

What I know, however, is that I'm just like you... a woman trying to do her best.
I get sometimes hundreds of emails a day.
Right now there are 3,241 emails in my inbox. Just recently that was over 10,000.
I'm not lying. I've worked my tail off to get the number down to where it is now.

To complicate things a bit, some of them come on twitter and facebook. business and personal. So I'm constantly checking multiple accounts.


Despite trying my best, I cannot reply to all of them.
They are questions, comments, suggestions, complaints, criticisms, media inquiries, and loads upon loads of requests for sponsorships.
I get tons of businesses and people wanting me to sponsor their blog, conference, charity, store, organization, giveaway, school, soccer tournament, family reunion, etc.


If I were to reply to every single one, I'd spend 5 or so hours a day just in emails.
I'm a wife, a mom, a small business owner, trying to juggle it all, while occasionally grieving the loss of a puppy, taking in a new puppy, attending school functions, showering once or twice a month, trying to feed my family a decent meal, and provide them with clean underwear.

I am a person, far from perfect.
At this stage of my life, my time management skills are the best they've ever been. That's a good thing. Of course it's never enough.
I need clones. No wait, multiple Beki's would probably not be good.
I need minions. I'd pay well for minions.

I promise you that I do read every single email. I just can't reply to all of them.
It's not that I'm careless or snotty or stuck up or that you aren't important.
You are.
It's just that I'm busy.


And when my family runs out of clean underwear, I start getting nasty comments from them.

I'm just a woman, doing my best.


*****
Do you ever feel like you're drowning in stuff?

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Little Getaway...

Over the weekend we went to Springfield, MO which is where I'm from.
I always love being there.

My sister and I got to go out for a little girl time. I love that.
It was cold, unfortunately. But we walked, talked, shopped, had coffee at The Mudhouse.

We enjoyed the lines and architecture of the old buildings and wrought iron fences.
We shopped at Gallery Bistro, which is this little market in the middle of downtown.
It.Is.So.Cute.
Fresh flowers. Fresh fish. Bulk bins. Organic wine. Things you can't get at the small town WalMarts I go to get my groceries.

sgf1

We had cupcakes. And cheesecake. And tacos. (I'm sure we burned off all those calories walking... *ahem*)
We found sunglasses 2 for $10 in a little boutique so I bought a pair for both of us.
I'm a spender... She's a lucky sister.

One storefront window was filled with birds.
sgf2

And then I noticed this sign. "Put a bird on it..." Ha!
I'm not into the huge bird trend right now. But it makes me laugh.
You've seen the video this is referencing, right? If not, click here to see it.
Just put a bird on it. It'll instantly become trendy and lovely and fashionable and cool. Ha.

sgf3

It was so nice. Even though it was only a few cold hours, it was good for my soul.

*****
What do you do when you have girl time with a friend or relative?

Monday, March 28, 2011

Monday numbers.

Number of miles traveled over the weekend: 578
Number of laughs shared: 733
Number of games of Apples to Apples I won: 0
Number of dirty dishes I left in the sink over the weekend: 72
Number of puppies at my feet: 1
Number of smelly Basset Hounds in the house: 1
Number of emails I need to reply to: 48
Number of cups of coffee I've had today: 1
Number of jewelry orders that need mailed this week: 1,204 (or something like that)
Number of harmonica playing 9 year olds in the next room: 1
Number of loads of laundry I need to wash: 12
Number of hours until Spring Break is over: 19
Number of hours it will take to get our taxes organized: 3500
Number of shoes scattered on my office floor: 8
Number of daffodils in a plastic Lion King "vase" next to me: 5
Number of dirty noses and Kool Aid mustaches in the home: 1


*****
I'm not quite ready to tackle this week. But this week will tackle me if I don't get to it first. So here I go.

Happy Monday to you!!

Saturday, March 26, 2011

Blessing.

{This is a re-post from a year ago.}

The other night The Boy woke up with a bad dream.
He came to our bed, we snuggled and got him calmed down, and everything got quiet.

After a few minutes, he leaned over and whispered, "Mom, I love you."
I didn't say anything because I was nearly asleep and shocked that he offered this, out of the blue.
And he said it again, this time louder and a little annoyed, "Mom! I said I love you!" (Hey, he's 8.)



Of course I said it back, but I was holding back tears.
What a kind and selfless act! He made my day, at 4:00 in the morning, with a simple random "I love you."

I laid awake for the next hour thinking about what a blessing that was, as I listened to him snore.



I thought about the meaning of the word bless.

Bless -
a favor or gift bestowed by God, thereby bringing happiness

to bestow good of any kind upon


And then I wondered, how often do we take the time to really bless people in our lives.
We all know about "random acts of kindness."
But what about the people we love. The ones that are closest to us.
How often do we go out of our way to bless them?



What's one simple thing you can do to bless your family today?
Play a card game with them?
Do another family member's chores?
Surprise them with a batch of fresh cookies?
Allow the kids to eat a "backwards dinner" - Dessert first, then the meal.
Spend an extra 5 minutes snuggling.
Tell your husband a few of your favorite qualities about him, why you fell in love with him.
Have the house picked up when your husband comes home from work.
Leave out the spinich in a meal and tell your kid, "I did that just for you."
Tell your insecure daughter how stunningly beautiful she is.


How can you bless your family today?
I'll bet it will burn a memory in their mind that will stretch that blessing out for a very very long time.

Friday, March 25, 2011

Fingerprint Friday

There is a song by Steven Curtis Chapman that says:
I can see the fingerprints of God
When I look at you
I can see the fingerprints of God
And I know its true
You're a masterpiece
That all creation quietly applauds
And you're covered with the fingerprints of God

So look around you and see where YOU can see God's fingerprints. Is it in nature? Kids? Animals? Where do you see them? Here's how to join:

1. Blog with your interpretation of God's fingerprints. Be sure to link back here so others can find the entire list of participants.
2. After you've posted your blog, sign the Linky below. Have fun exploring the other links as well!
Please sign in only if you're participating. Hopefully this will make us look at things through fresh eyes throughout the week.
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Spring makes everything seem so fresh and pure again.
A new start for each flower and blade of grass.
And I pray that God continues to refresh and renew my heart, making it pure and loyal.

Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me from your presence or take your Holy Spirit from me. Psalm 51:10-11

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Flying High.



The weather here lately has been crazy beautiful.
I use "crazy" as an adjective way too often.
And I'm sorry if you're still fighting winter. We are loving 80 degrees and sunshine.



The kids are on Spring Break this week, which is messing with my schedule.
In a good way.
We're staying up late, sleeping in late, spending the days outside soaking up large amounts of much-needed Vitamin D, and having picnics for lunch.
It's good.




We're doing a little landscaping. Usually The Man does that stuff but I offered to help this year.
Big mistake.
No one warned me how physical it is.
I may be too prissy for it after all. There's like dirt and worms and sweat and stuff!



I've switched to iced coffee in the mornings. That's a great thing.
I love this time of year.



We saw our first snake of the season. Ew.



I'm planting lots of flowers and planning the garden.
I've no idea what I'm doing, but it makes me feel like a real country living kind of gal and that's a good thing.



We're flying high and loving life lately!

*****
Do you have a swing in your yard?

Monday, March 21, 2011

Emotions.

The thing about Basset Hounds is their smell.
Many people will say it smells like corn chips. I disagree.
I would never eat Fritos that smell like Lilo. She just plain stinks.
It's an oil that still smells, even after a bath.

The other thing about Bassets is their expressive face.
I can pull out my camera and start giving Lilo direction and she nails it, spot on.
Every time.

Show me anxious.


Show me happy.


Show me loved.


Show me worried.


Show me confident.


Show me seductive.


Show me excited.


See? Kate Moss has nothing on this beauty.
This girl knows how to work it.

*****
Happy Monday to you!

Saturday, March 19, 2011

The Blues.

{r.a.n.d.o.m.}

~ Last week I made fun of The Man and his ridiculous man-cold.
And then it was payback time.
I got a crazy nasty cold on Sunday that turned into a sinus infection that I'm still hanging on to nearly a week later.

~ We had a crazy busy week with jewelry orders.
It was like the Christmas season all over again. Madness.
Good though. Except that I couldn't keep up with everything I needed to due to the dang man-cold.

~ I made the big girl leap into "real" coffee this week. I got a coffee grinder and started grinding my own beans. Yum.

~ My favorite color yesterday was teal/blue/turquoise/aqua. Today it's yellow. Tomorrow it'll be teal again. It fluctuates between those two almost daily.
In the top left photo you can see my yellow office walls. Perfectly sunshine.
Oh, and the top middle says "Love What You Do" but the bottom got cut off in the collage.
Blues

~ I will be in Southwest MO next weekend and can squeeze in one more photo shoot. If you're interested, email me. (I already Facebooked this and have some stuff lined up.)

~ This morning I watched Enchanted. I love that movie! I love how they squeeze in every possible Disney stereotype. Amy Adams is adorable. And Patrick Dempsey... slurp.

~ Happy Weekend to you!!

*****
What is your current favorite color?

p.s. The winner of the Miracles Happen and Country Living giveaway is Barbie! Please email therustedchaininfo AT yahoo.com.

Friday, March 18, 2011

Fingerprint Friday

There is a song by Steven Curtis Chapman that says:
I can see the fingerprints of God
When I look at you
I can see the fingerprints of God
And I know its true
You're a masterpiece
That all creation quietly applauds
And you're covered with the fingerprints of God

So look around you and see where YOU can see God's fingerprints. Is it in nature? Kids? Animals? Where do you see them? Here's how to join:

1. Blog with your interpretation of God's fingerprints. Be sure to link back here so others can find the entire list of participants.
2. After you've posted your blog, sign the Linky below. Have fun exploring the other links as well!
Please sign in only if you're participating. Hopefully this will make us look at things through fresh eyes throughout the week.
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There are certain times of year that Kansas is really beautiful and March is one of them.
The winter wheat fields are so bright and vivid while everything else is still brown and dormant.
This color is so beautiful!! I love it.
Happy Friday to you!

(I took this out my car window, driving down the dirt road.)


Thursday, March 17, 2011

Photography 101

We had the Photography 101 class over the weekend.
10 ladies showed up with their cameras, notebooks, smiles, and ready to learn!

All of these photos were taken by one of the students. In manual. On my camera.
And then she bought my camera from me. YAY!


I don't claim to be the best photographer out there.
But I do know and understand the technical side of things so it was fun to be able to explain it to these ladies.
ISO, aperture, metering, white balance, backlighting, etc. Fun stuff!


I loved seeing the lightbulbs go on as things started making sense to them.
So much of, "Ohhhhh THAT'S what that means!!" and "Ahh! I never knew that!"
We were supposed to have a model but that fell through.
I'd wanted to go outside and shoot some things but it was cold and windy and sleeting and I'm a bit wimpy.
So we stayed indoors and this scarf on the coffee table became our model.


There were all different skill sets, and all different types of cameras.
I can explain Canon's pretty well and fumble my way through the settings and screens, but Nikon's threw me for a loop. Sorry Nikon gals!

I think everyone had fun, learned a few things (even if it's just that they want a new camera), made some new friends, chatted and ate cupcakes.


And knowing that people were coming over motivated The Man to remove our 1980's wallpaper border in the bathroom, so it was a win for me too.

Thanks ladies for coming!!

*****
Question: Do you do anything special for St. Patrick's Day? {We're all wearing green and that's about as much as we do.}

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Here we go again...

I woke up this morning to this view out of my office window, in my cozy little corner of the world.



Why? Because I'm Blessed. So amazingly blessed.
Blessed with hot coffee. A roof. Windows. Blankets. Pictures on my walls.
Kids, dogs, friends
... so blessed!

Obviously much of Japan is telling a different story now though.
No roof, no windows, lost pets, lost children, loss of normalcy.

And while I'd love to sit in my sweet little office, look at sunrises and deer, and pretend to not know what's going on over there, I do.
I know exactly what's going on and it hurts my heart.

Some of you might remember after the Haiti disaster that The Rusted Chain donated $10 from every Blessed necklace sold, to help. In total, we were able to donate over $3,000.

And here we go again. $10 from every Blessed necklace will go to World Vision to help Japan's earthquake and tsunami victims. This is a wonderful organization that we feel good about, has great charity ratings, and is established and trustworthy.


Am I scared? Yep.
Am I secretly not wanting to make the commitment? Yep.
But I am called.

Bless - a favor or gift bestowed by God, thereby bringing happiness.
to bestow good of any kind upon

If you can't buy a necklace, or aren't interested, I completely understand.
But will you please help spread the word and pray?
That alone will help the people of Japan.

*****
You look beautiful today. Has anyone told you that yet?

Monday, March 14, 2011

Hairy.

It was a super busy weekend.
I can't believe it's Monday already. I'm gonna need extra sleep to make up for that one hour lost.
It might take 3 or 4 hours to make up for it.

The Girl and I have been ready to chop off our hair for a long time and this weekend was finally the time.

I've donated to Locks of Love 3 times before this, so this made my 4th.
It was The Girl's 1st. She loved it!

Before.


After.


There's still lots of time to enter the Miracles Happen giveaway below this post.
The Butterfly is a huge hit!

Happy Monday!

*****
Have you ever donated your hair or known someone who was the recipient of a wig from Locks of Love?

Saturday, March 12, 2011

Miracles Happen { GIVEAWAY! }

A little story, the very condensed version: Jamie is a local lady to me. We've met a couple times.

Last week on Facebook a message was posted about a baby ready to be born, and the mother was looking for a family to adopt.
But the family had to have documented Native American heritage.
Word spread quickly and within about 15 minutes Jamie was realizing that God was sending her a new baby.
Jamie's family has documented Native American heritage and already has 2 adopted children.

Most people have 9 months or so to plan for a baby. Jamie's family has about 2 weeks! You can click here to read her story. You might get teary and goose bumpled. You've been warned.

We have a new necklace design. I drew this butterfly and absolutely love it.
I love butterflies anyway. But the hearts on the wings just make it so perfect!
Through the end of March, for every Miracles Happen necklace sold, we'll donate $10 to Jamie's adoption fund.



We also want to give one away to one of you!
Not only are we giving away the necklace, but the winner will also win a year's subscription to

Country Living magazine! It's my favorite.


To enter: Leave a comment telling your favorite thing about Spring.
For additional entries, Facebook, blog, or tweet it. ( "New Butterfly necklace giveaway @TheRustedChain! http://tinyurl.com/4faafj3" )
Leave extra comments for each of these.


p.s. The winner of the last giveaway is Fifth Street Mama. Email TheRustedChainInfo AT yahoo.com please. :)

Friday, March 11, 2011

Fingerprint Friday

There is a song by Steven Curtis Chapman that says:
I can see the fingerprints of God
When I look at you
I can see the fingerprints of God
And I know its true
You're a masterpiece
That all creation quietly applauds
And you're covered with the fingerprints of God

So look around you and see where YOU can see God's fingerprints. Is it in nature? Kids? Animals? Where do you see them? Here's how to join:

1. Blog with your interpretation of God's fingerprints. Be sure to link back here so others can find the entire list of participants.
2. After you've posted your blog, sign the Linky below. Have fun exploring the other links as well!
Please sign in only if you're participating. Hopefully this will make us look at things through fresh eyes throughout the week.
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The other day The Baby looked up at the sky and said, "I not know which cloud Dod is on." Awwww! I explained that He's in every cloud and all around us too! But I loved the idea.



Wednesday, March 09, 2011

5 Things...

1. Our family has been passing a cold from one member to the next. Right now The Baby has a fever. Over the weekend, The Man had it. And lawzy mercy, there ain't nothin' worse than a mancold. I know I'm terrible, but I lose all patience when he's sick.
The drama. Ugh. I've been known to blurt out before, "I gave birth to 3 kids with no drugs! Get over it!"
I may have been PMS'ing that day.

2. Speaking of hormones (aren't y'all glad you stopped in today?!)... Every time I get on track with a good food and workout regimine, the hormones hit. Every.Single.Time. And then I turn into an evil monster without large amounts of alternating coffee, doritos, and dark chocolate. And then I put back on the 3 or 4 lbs. I'd lost.

3. It's been gray and dreary here for a few days. I could use some sunshine. (You guessed that already, huh?)

4. This Sunday is the Photography 101 workshop! Details are on the right sidebar. It'll be fun and educational! Are you coming?

5. I rock.



*****
Question: Will you plant flowers in your yard this year? Which ones?

Monday, March 07, 2011

Be Inspired.



This is your life. Take it and savor it.
Create, even if you think you're not creative.
Inspire others. Share love.
Give, even when you think you have nothing to give.

This is your life!

Saturday, March 05, 2011

Fluffy Cream.

Or Creamy Fluff. Or Whippy Fluff. Or Fluffity Whip.
It goes by lots of different names around here.

It's a yummy creamy fluffy fruit dip.
And the recipe's tricky. Are you ready?



1 jar of marshmallow cream
1 block of cream cheese (I use 1/3 less fat)

Soften the cream cheese, and with a mixer, mix in the marshmallow cream.
You can use a few tablespoons of milk to loosen it up a bit if you want.

Oh sweet Mabel, this is good stuff!
Dip strawberries, grapes, bananas, melon, apples, and fresh pineapple in it.

And when those are all gone, dip a spoon or your finger in it.
Then smack your mama. Or smack the table. Or the countertop.
It's that good.

I dare you to make some this weekend. And report back on what you think.

Happy Weekend to you!

******
p.s. I mentioned a while back, a photography workshop I am planning.
It's next weekend! My house. March 13 2-5pm. FREE. We'll cover photography basics, shooting in manual, lighting, aperture, ISO, metering.Bring yourself, your camera, your manual, a notebook, and all your questions! :) Email for directions.

p.p.s. I apologize for taking and editing the above photo in the dark. Ugh. I'll try not to do that again.

Friday, March 04, 2011

Fingerprint Friday

There is a song by Steven Curtis Chapman that says:
I can see the fingerprints of God
When I look at you
I can see the fingerprints of God
And I know its true
You're a masterpiece
That all creation quietly applauds
And you're covered with the fingerprints of God


So look around you and see where YOU can see God's fingerprints. Is it in nature? Kids? Animals? Where do you see them? Here's how to join:

1. Blog with your interpretation of God's fingerprints. Be sure to link back here so others can find the entire list of participants.
2. After you've posted your blog, sign the Linky below. Have fun exploring the other links as well!
Please sign in only if you're participating. Hopefully this will make us look at things through fresh eyes throughout the week.
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I found a feather in the yard the other day and was amazed at it's color.
It doesn't show in the photo as it does in real life, but it is bright crayon orange.
Don't you think God just had the best time being an artist as He created the earth and all the creatures in it?!

Thursday, March 03, 2011

Beautiful you. {Giveaway!}

Today's my birthday.

Yeah, it was my birthday yesterday too. But it might also be today.
When I was growing up my brother had me convinced that I was actually born on the 3rd of March, rather than the 2nd, and that my parents celebrated it on the wrong day.
So every year I'd "play along" with the birthday stuff on March 2, knowing in my head that it was really March 3 that was my special day.
When the story finally came out, I think everyone in the family was confused.
My brother had himself so convinced of the lie that he's still confused by it.
Why?! Because big brothers are rotten. That's all.

So today I'm having cake. Again.
And celebrating. Again.
Because I can. Who says you can't have 2 birthdays in one year?

Do you remember recently when I posted about You being Beautiful? You are.
This idea just keeps rolling around in my head, and I finally created a necklace for it.

You're Beautiful necklace


Enter to win a $25 gift certificate to TheRustedChain.com!

1. Leave a comment telling your favorite physical feature. (will be tough for some of you!)
2. Facebook, blog it, or tweet it for additional entries. (Beautiful jewelry giveaway @TheRustedChain! http://tinyurl.com/4es7ndr)

Please leave additional comments for each.

If you don't want to wait, use FLOWER15 for a 15% discount on your entire purchase! Expires Sunday night.

Wednesday, March 02, 2011

Today...

... is Dr. Suess's birthday.



And Jon Bon Jovi's birthday.



And Karen Carpenter's birthday.



And my birthday. 34.

Meet Sully. He's our new baby. We adopted him over the weekend from the pound.
He's a Bernese Mountain Dog.
We kept with our Disney themed names. (We always name our pets after Disney characters.)
I kind of wanted to name him Carl. Because in the movie Up, Ellie passed on first and then Carl was left without her. And a dog named Carl is just funny.
It would've been my little nod to Ellie that we lost last week. But the kids outvoted me and we decided on Sully.
Because he'll be big and fluffy and hairy like the guy in Monster's, Inc. He'll get to be about 110 or 115 lbs.
He won't, however, have purple spots.

I kind of wish I had something profound to say.
A list of 34 great things to accomplish this year.
Wisdom I've learned in the past year. Something. Anything.
But instead I'm in a hurry. I'm meeting some friends for lunch. And I haven't showered yet.
I can't show up stinky on my birthday.

And spending time with people I care about it a good thing to focus on today.

Happy Day to you!!